How To Get Over An Ex (The Helping A Friend Version)


A Photo of my Once Upon A Time Mc Delivery Baby – LOL

Recently, a friend of mine contacted me. She’s very heart-broken by the experience.

So I shared with her some very good tips (in my view, I guess haha):

  1. Some people said it’s good to stay friends with ex. My view – NO. It’s like a baggage to carry. If you wanna move on, move on for real.
  2. Delete all of the contacts pertaining to him or his friends.
  3. Click on the ‘Refresh’ button of your life, girlfriend! Pursue a degree or change to a new job. Quit the excuses and excel.
  4. Go for a physical makeover. Exercise and have a goal i.e. 6 pack or perhaps toned body or an ideal aimed weight
  5. Go for more pampering sessions – Massage, Manicure, Pedicure. Make yourself sizzling hot and irresistible.
  6. Join a volunteerism group to make new friends.
  7. Go for a hairstyling make-over. Perm, highlights, you name it. LOL
  8. Change your contact number and only add VIP people.

And last but not least, keep your contacts with only friends who inspire you… not degrade you further.


Alisha’s Mommy

Loving You Endlessly (Poetry)

Photo Credits: Tiga MM

I searched my whole life
For someone to call me his wife
A man who has the courage
To let me be above average

I thank God for gifting
Me with someone worth loving
There are days we’re only fighting
But he’s the one who keeps me moving

I long for only his kiss
A moment without him I miss
Though times may be rough
He’s the one who keeps me tough

I will love you endlessly
Forever and ever hopelessly
Till the end of time
I only hope for you be mine

Our love gave us a child
She’s the one who makes love even more wild
She keeps us together
Whatever the weather

Dedicated to my Husband & Daughter.
It’s been a long time since I last wrote poetry.
The last time I won a poetry contest was when I was in Secondary school.