Anger. Everyone gets angry. You may be strong physically but emotionally, you might not be as strong.
Spoken words can never be retracted. Words spoken out of anger are often taken out of context.
Are you strong enough to remain silent while you are angry or will you fall into the trap of your own emotions?
It is easier said than done. He, Prophet Muhammad, treated his enemies better than we treat those who love us.
So, imagine how he would treat his loved ones in this case. Sometimes, deep inside our hearts, we are probably screaming vulgarities at the person we hate.
I guess it is true then that we can only inspire others through our own actions. Perhaps this is the best way to turn our enemies into frenemies.