The Courage To Raise Our Sons


Credits: AZ Quotes

I find that upbringing is very important. If parents teach their sons that in the society these days, men have to help with the housework.

Why? Because women are helping out men by working as well.

The husband has no right to say ‘it is your job as a woman’ unless they have been taught that way by their parents since young.

If I have a son, I will remind him that one day your wife might need you to take over if she is ill. There are days your wife would be worn out from work and need you to help with ironing.

Upbringing is essential.

Beautiful Lie, Painful Truth


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Recently, I had a minor disagreement with my boss. My contract is ending end of June and I had a job offer. But, recently, my health has not been doing too well. He did not believe me.

Truth however remains that this is my body. I, myself, will know the condition of my body and when it has reached it’s breaking point.

He said why take a break? However, take note of the recent deaths in the news of celebrities passing on. Example, Avicii. He was so tired. His body already said no but some people did not believe him.

I learnt from his experience though. That death waits for no one. If you feel like your body needs a break, take it because only you know your body. If you are sick, nobody is gonna bother to care for you at the hospital bed. They have their own commitments.

So, in July, I am giving my body a break to regain my health as it is the most precious gift you have.

Even Pray For Those Who Hurt Him


Credits: Islamic Quote

Yesterday, I asked a friend to pray for my health. And she gave a ton of lecturing on taking care of my health. She also said why should she pray for me if I don’t even take the effort?

The thing is I took all the effort and went to even three doctors. I only requested for you to pray for me. If you don’t want to, I am not mad but I am mad at you for assuming and giving excuses for not praying for a fellow friend?

I had some friends who were true and they really prayed for me. I would pray for my friend as well with or without request.

In fact, I pray for everyone almost every night to be blessed.